I don't understand why so many people get so upset over...what's the right timing, what's the right style, what foot do I start on. Their is good conversation and then their is childish bickering. Grow up and realize it's all just dance, even the competitions. You must move with the times or die. Things change deal with it and just have fun. If someone likes rumba forward and someone else likes it side, who cares, if you are really dancing, then you dance with the person not the dance itself. If you like Arthur Murray, Fred Astaire, or an independent great. But don't put one down because you are jaded. Now go enjoy it, have good clean debates and conversations and quit trying to kill what we all love, because hate just makes the next generation want to crump or whatever and ballroom will die. Thank goodness for television. Hopefully some of you out there feel the same.